Husband took 7 year old son to the dentist who diagnosed him with a couple of cavities. Dentist showed my husband where these cavities were, on the tops of two of his molars, and my husband said he could see what the dentist was talking about, but then when he tried to show me, neither one of us could find them. I decided to take him for a second opinion. As soon as dentist #2 found out who dentist #1 was, she acted like I was doing something wrong bringing him in for a second opinion and kept raving about how dentist #1 was the best dentist in the area. She checked my son's mouth, looked confused, looked at the X rays dentist #1 had done, still was confused, so she did her own X rays and then diagnosed with my son with an additional bunch of cavities on top of the ones that dentist #1 had found. Once she saw the X rays then she could point out where the cavities were to me, which were areas that were just slightly a different shade of white. I was so skeptical about the whole thing because how bad of cavities could they be if they could only be seen once you know what to look for on an X ray? Not to mention just her whole attitude of how dare you question dentist #1 made me feel like she had some other agenda than giving an honest 2nd opinion.
So I was paralyzed with indecision for a few months trying to decide what to do when I learned about silver diamine fluoride and decided surely this was the solution! So I asked dentist #1 about using it and he said it would be unlikely to work because my son's cavities were all in between his teeth. What?? He had never said anything about the cavities being in between the teeth before, so I decided this dentist could not be trusted, if he was changing the story now. I took all my kids to dentist #3 and didn't mention anything about a second opinion, just acted like it was a regular check up. Dentist #3 diagnosed my son with multiple cavities in between his teeth. Said that his teeth looked perfect just looking inside his mouth, but that there was decay in between the teeth that couldn't be seen except on an X Ray. So it corroborates exactly with what Dentist #1 put in my son's dental chart but not at all with what we were verbally told.
So my question is why did I have two dentists physically pointing out decay to us when none of the decay can visually be seen? Why didn't they just say what Dentist #3 did, that the decay was all between the teeth?
So I was paralyzed with indecision for a few months trying to decide what to do when I learned about silver diamine fluoride and decided surely this was the solution! So I asked dentist #1 about using it and he said it would be unlikely to work because my son's cavities were all in between his teeth. What?? He had never said anything about the cavities being in between the teeth before, so I decided this dentist could not be trusted, if he was changing the story now. I took all my kids to dentist #3 and didn't mention anything about a second opinion, just acted like it was a regular check up. Dentist #3 diagnosed my son with multiple cavities in between his teeth. Said that his teeth looked perfect just looking inside his mouth, but that there was decay in between the teeth that couldn't be seen except on an X Ray. So it corroborates exactly with what Dentist #1 put in my son's dental chart but not at all with what we were verbally told.
So my question is why did I have two dentists physically pointing out decay to us when none of the decay can visually be seen? Why didn't they just say what Dentist #3 did, that the decay was all between the teeth?